Category Archives: First Adoption

WOOHOO!!!

Someone smack me over the head for complaining, please.

Today we had our last homestudy meeting! YAY!

Today, a stranger donated to our adoption fund.

Today, another stranger bought two t-shirts to support bringing our kids home. And offered to send them books!

But, really, who am I to call these awesome people strangers? Erika and Ilya, orphans in a far away country, have a FAMILY waiting for them here in the United States. A family which I’m learning is much more than me and Aaron, extends beyond our literal families, into a family of people who have a heart for orphans and want to see Erika and Ilya home. How incredible!

Also, if you have not heard about the Shupp family, please check out their blog. They have had an unusual surprise come up in the last few days before leaving for their child’s country and now need to raise $3000 more. Lyndi is not only a sweetheart, but she also volunteers for RR and helps people like us bring our kids home, by checking our paperwork and answering our questions. Please pray for them and donate, if you are able.

I have to admit that I’ve been frustrated lately. On Friday, I went to pick up my medical form from the doctor’s office. And there were several mistakes on it. Most of which were stupid mistakes, mistakes which I think the staff at the doctor’s office made because they were busy or thought the directions were too complicated. So now, it has to be redone.

I got a letter in the mail today from the IRS. I got excited, thinking it was finally our tax refund… a very large check. I opened it and it was saying that they were reviewing our case and it could be up to 45 days because we hear from them again, with our check or requesting more information.

And I’ve been really frustrated with the fundraisers. We’ve had one person buy coffee, one person interested in a t-shirt and one person who was interested in the photography sessions, as of this afternoon. Thanks to a sweet friend not only saying she’d like a session, but also sharing it on her facebook, we now have three families interested in photo sessions. I am so grateful to my friend Amy for this wonderful idea and offering to do it, and also to those of you who have shared it with others!

I really should be more positive about everything though. We have our final homestudy meeting tomorrow. We got our passports on Saturday. We also went to several garage sales on Saturday morning and found some clothes for Erika, a pair of pants for Ilya and a few toys and books, too… spent around $11 for 3 little girl outfits and 2 pairs of shoes, one little boy pair of pants, four books, building blocks and a train set. And on Sunday, we scored a double Baby Jogger off of Craigslist, which just needs one of its tires repaired, something Aaron can easily do… $30.

I’ve had a couple of comments, that I’d like to address…


I don’t know if this little girl is who I think she is but if she is, she has a sister. You might want to go check it out 🙂
The little girl listed on that website is, in fact, the same little girl we’re adopting, but they are incorrect in listing them as sisters. I checked with Andrea at Reece’s Rainbow. Both of their birthdates are correct and they are not related. Darya does look very sweet and she is available for adoption through Reece’s Rainbow. She is listed here in orphanage 33.

So does this mean that the children know that you want to adopt them now? How exciting, one step closer! 
I wish that they knew, but they do not know and they will not know until we arrive there and we meet them.

Please feel free to leave question in the comments! I am happy to answer them if I can.

Photo Fundraiser

Updated with new dates and times!

My super duper sweet friend Amy has offered to do a photo fundraiser for us. I know that I mentioned this before, but I wanted to post about it specifically, in hopes of getting some people involved.

The cost for a session with Amy is $75. $50 of that goes directly to our adoption. The rest is to cover Amy’s costs. $75 buys you a 30 minute session with Amy, about 20-25 photos, and the right to print those photos wherever you want. The cost is SO reasonable.

Here are a few photos from Amy’s portfolio; feel free to check out the rest…

We will be having one set of sessions in Kansas City on the evening of August 7th. We will be having  a second set of sessions in Lawrence on August 8th, in the afternoon. I am not posting all the details for the obvious reason that this is the internet.

Why should you do this? Because, Amy rocks & she takes beautiful photos. And, because it supports our adoption.

Email me at MMorris87 at gmail dot com if you are interested. I can also give you Amy’s email if you have questions for her.

YAY!

Today, our Child Specific Petition and Power of Attorney forms arrived in the country we’re adopting from. This is the first bit of the paperwork that announces that we’re coming! That we want to adopt Erika and Ilya. Once it is submitted, no other family can try to adopt them internationally, I think. Another family in their own country could still adopt them though. Or they could be pulled into foster care, like Quinn was.

We’ve completed 3/4s of our homestudy. Just one meeting left! So, right now, we are waiting on our passports, waiting on our fingerprinting appointment for immigration and waiting to finish up our homestudy. We’re also looking into loans to get the money we’ll need to complete the adoption.

Does anyone need a cute photo? Hmm… I could always use one…