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Better luck next time

Today was terrible. We got to KC with an hour and a half before our flight… with only 3 United agents helping ALL of the customers. 1 of them for economy, 1 who had no clue what she was doing (“I’ve only been doing this 3 days and I don’t know what I’m doing!”), and 1 for First Class, Business, etc.

I could go into details, but I doubt that anyone really cares…

I will admit fault to say that we should have been there 2 hours early. (Which was totally my fault, laughing at Aaron, who wanted to leave at 8am, which would have gotten us there 2.5hrs before our flight). I’ve flown out of KC many times (including internationally), and taken other people to fly out of KC many times, and we’ve always found an hour to be PLENTY of time. So an  hour and a half seemed very safe.

But, there was so much wrong with the situation. Poor logistics, understaffed, undertrained staff, staff who just didn’t care, and overbooked flights. Anyone, even just walking by, could see that the whole thing was a disaster.

We heard a whole lot of blame on us… I can’t tell you how many times that they told us that we should have been there 2 hours early and the statement “I can’t do anything”. Never once did we hear an apology or any sympathy to our situation.

There are two things that a customer service rep should be decent at… 1.) Whatever it is they serve you doing. 2.) Being nice to people. I saw neither today.

Anyways, we have tickets for tomorrow. Same airline. We will arrive at the airport 3 hours early. In the very likely event that we will have way too much time, I will stand exit of the customer service counters and hand out hugs and encouraging notes like “Better luck next time!” or “Fly Southwest!”

P.S. In case you are wondering how bad it is that we are arriving in EE a day late, we will see. Please pray it’s not a big deal.

11 hours to go…

We will be boarding a plane in 11 hours! Yeah! We won’t see A until Sunday, so middle of the night for all of you Americans.

Anyways, can you please be praying for us?

Also, let me know if you need the blog password, as all posts abroad will be password protected until he’s home with us. The password will be the same that it has been since November. 🙂 If you emailed me about the password and I never got back to you, please email me again.

Getting Back in the Groove

I took a break from regular blogging for awhile there, but I think I am ready to get back in the groove! There has been a lot that I haven’t felt ready to blog about, so I felt best stepping away for awhile. However, I am feeling inspired again. Partly because our adoption is moving along and partly because our life is getting interesting.

I really enjoyed putting that blog post together for Danae, and thinking about what I wish I knew or someone had told me. It was fun to hear from everyone. I’m actually working on another post with some input… should be interesting!

For those of you who need a Reed and Lena fix, check out this video that Reed, Lena and Danae made me for Mother’s Day…


9 days and I’ll be on a plane to go see a sweet little baby boy! I can’t wait.

Beautiful Things

I usually find a few songs that I listen to when I am “dealing” with something. Songs I can listen to over and over again.

Right now, I have a play list called “Encouragement”. Any suggestions?  And I’ve been listening to Gungor’s “Beautiful Things” album over and over again. The title song, “Beautiful Things”…

…Could all that is lost ever be found?…

Out of chaos life is being found in You.

You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of the dust
You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of us…

All of the ways our family and I personally have been broken over and over again to be glued back together in a more beautiful way. We each had to broken to come together as a family.

The coolest thing is that the person who loves this song the most is… Reed. He belts it out when it’s on the radio, or just randomly.

But, last Friday, he asked if he could listen to “You make beautiful things out of Gus.”

Gus. The name we call Baby “Anderson” around our house. You make beautiful things out of Gus.